So I have to make the decision..do I want her after the wear and tear of 200 men?? Any person with an abnormally high or indiscriminate number of partners either values sex too micah (must have it, with whoevers around) or too little (sharing one of lifes most intimate moments with any ol body). People rarely change. Required fields are marked *. And I suppose that a man or woman states it was only sex can be trusted not to sleep around since its only sex and not all men are like that its just an excuse to get laid. Wants to claim equality between men and women, but cant handle criticism as well as a man, not as physically strong or tall as a man . I understand where you are coming from but we do not agree on this topic. Im a male and feel that woman and young ladies do get a bad rap when it comes to sex and thier numbers. ), in some kind of limbo between trp and pua, not having result yet and feeling rather panicky, a girl comes along and you feel attached to her, you feel super duper extra insecure right now about a lot of things. I am available to help have the discussion. Chances are their are deeper issues that may have led to why she even chose to engage sexually with many people. Hint: your feelings about her past experiences aren't about her, but about you and what you imagine you see. ! No, it was because you can just tell a person who has had a lot of sexual partners. Sheila Saeung Jesus was a trouble maker, who got what he deserved. I AM SORRY, IT IS DISGUSTING TO THINK ABOUT A WOMEN WHO HAS LET MULTIUDES OF MEN DEFILE HER BODY. Im going to judge and hold people to the same standards Ive applied to myself. social fabric as a nation. Having sex with your man . When I used the hoe stroll term it wasnt to be offensive, it was a term that I found funny (maybe not all share my sense of humor) a friend coined that simply described a period of time where many women (for whatever there reason) is more promiscuous then she has been in her life. Sorry but it is a cutoff and a major factor in a potential mate. Its more likely that my comments are going to garner negativity but I think its good to have a healthy view on such things. Also, I do not believe in the double standard! No problem. Planned Parenthood business is booming. discuss it. Some people just dont deal with relationships well. But when the person they are today is not consistent with the person they once were, why would you choose to give the past more credibility? To give you all an example I will use myself because I honestly couldnt care less what you think about me. I am pointing out that sex is vastly different for men and women.. That is how we are made.. I agree that people who have engaged in very promiscuous behavior have exposed themselves to the possibility of having one or more of the 5 issues you laid out. FACEBOOK is a trademark of FaceBook INC. Stephan Speaks | All Rights Reserved 2020. Some people will still make a big deal out if it. Decisions determine who you are, end of story. As well, it is simply shameful to have such low standards as to have slept with dozens of people. Do you feel it is because she has cheated in the past or because she doesn't have to be in a relationship to sleep with a guy? it just kills me that women be the main one judging other women. He settled down and married his partner, Gabriella Wesberry, in 2010, the same year that Simply Red broke up after two and half decades together. Imagine if a man had zero partners before marriage, was told that her past was with a couple and they were small and terrible in bed, only to find out later that was a lie. womens promiscuity does not fit nicely into the fabricated utopia we Also, realize that the author is not talking about a woman whos been ridden like the town bike. We are in our 60s and feel like teenagers. It has been made apart of this life, but not apart of eternal life..We have one teacher here that JESUS and HE knows more about the subject than you do.In The Book of Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers GOD will judge. Men should realize that a low number of partners It is actually a fact that the more partners a woman has had, the more likely the marriage is to fail, source:https://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html But the same thing goes for men they should save their selves for the ONE, because u could be tainting another mans bloodline think about how you would feel to have another mans DNA in your children knowing they are not pure of you and you alone. No one is saying you have to date us. And realize having sex with a lot of people has its consequence you cant always have your cake and eat it too so **** smart and **** protected. Is she still a better option than the woman who once upon a time was promiscuous, no longer behaves that way, has healed/worked past her issues, and now can be everything you would need her to be? A person exposing the number of past partners has nothing to do with the present moments situation. If you cant provide a woman with certain things you will always leave the possibility of that relationship going in the wrong direction. People learn and grow from their experiences. Thanks for sharing! So know this, men will have their values, its just sad u will bypassed becos of it. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. This is a trite platitude devoid of meaning. Women have the choice to say, yup im gonna let this guy inside me. I personally would have never dated a guy who has slept around a lot. Independent. Religions throughout the world encourage multiplying.and theyre not talking about the female having many children. If a woman is saying all the right things about her values and views on sexuality, intimacy, etc. Get out of the relationship, because you want You can question the theory of evolution, or gravity, or anything else, but your questioning doesnt impugn their validity. There is no double standard at all. I will say that we all are entitled to our own opinions, but when those opinions are based in judgment and primitive prehistoric double standards, that makes your opinion INVALID. Keep hanging on to your religious/ sociopolitical dogma all you want, but that doesnt confront the facts against your case And like Nietzsche always said, Some people dont want to hear the truth, because they dont want their illusions destroyed.. I told her not to be judgmental. There is so much more to point too that have a greater impact on a failing marriage. esp on the parent side of things. I run into more issues with the fact that some women have literally had over 15 boyfriends, and have slept with them all, multiple times even. If she is raped, she is at fault and will be executed period. To judge them is just wrong and unfair. Every self-respecting guy I know does not want to settle down with a whore, and would respect a woman less if he learned she had 100 former partners vs. say 8. Marriage can't be only about sex. someone else. I can see it now. Thats what alpha men do in the truest sense the word. many people feel and learn otherwise. And its not just about the numbers. We are happy. may get a good friend out of getting to know that person. And I ask you, why ride the Datson if youre looking for the Benz? So keep railing against common sense and reality, well be here if you ever stop. Some of the best sex you may have is one that includes arousal and anxiety. You know I feel you Jennifer. I applaud you Stephan for SOME of your opinions on this matter and for standing your ground. I will dismiss any woman who I know has been around the block. I want to dedicate long term to this girl as that is what I like to do when I commit to a relationship but I'm terrified that I will end up wasting a large amount of time on a girl who will end up cheating on me or blowing up in my face. The number is certainly not all that matters. I falled in love with a woman that had sex with around 700 partners before me. Have you ever heard of kegel exercises? Its a reality of biology. for adults. It is simply saying that when a man comes across a woman who has had this kind of past that judging her based solely on that is in my opinion not the best approach for determining if she really is the woman for him. Well a lot of us men would have been very happy just meeting a woman that could love us for who we are just like they did years ago since money was never an issue, and many women Accepted their men back then since many marriages did last very long like our Parents and Grandparents did. Run. If you don't respect her, don't date her. If I trusted someone and it came up, I so what this nigga is saying is, Its alright to marry a whore, right? I am faced with a decision as to whether or not stay with my current girlfriend, because in all honesty I only wish to be her friend after finding out her past. of life (high school/college) and people seem to not care as much as they get As I stated earlier there are many issues that may have led to the promiscuity and it is those same issues that can bring down a marriage. It's four times the number of people that would be acceptable in order for you to expect virginity from anyone else. Folks need to grow up and kill all the judgement as if they are walking perfection. To be patient with you and The world is hard on us women. Now, I know you didnt use any of these words. Frankly, education and the age of marriage are the biggest predictors of marital stability, not the number of penises a woman has been privy to prior to the marriage. What youre looking at is her psychology. (one-nighters) out of the 19 people Ive had sex with that I didnt get to It carries some truth to it undoubtedly. We all have a past & lol about the wear & tear comment. I saw her the next day and asked why she acts like that toward me, and she said "BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY". Well at least the second one could get justified by necessity Would you marry a prostitute? With that said, I am not saying the numbers are the reason for her behavior because as I mentioned before, I agree that she was or islikelypromiscuous as a result of some underlying issue but I do see a correlation between the higher numbers and their view of whats acceptable behavior in a committed relationship. She is still the same woman she was before she told you the number, the only difference is how you will now choose to process it and treat her. Most people have not and this applies to both men and women. I choose not to do that because that is not what this discussion should be about. Back in the day (I mean waaayyyy back lol) it was all about having a virgin. As per your Article this clearly shows that Women have sex during their High School and early age as they know that guys or men will not marry them they just want SEX so this only classified that kind of woman as a SLUT ( a WHORE who sexs without Money) I KNOW that I am not missing out on anything. See I then made the mistake of going through all of her old emails and weve talked about it alot it never makes me feel any better about it just worse to be honest to know the things shes done, now shes a mom, we have a baby together and it kind of taints the whole thing. A man does not want to have to compete with previous Mr. Big. Yeah, but it does and that's the way a lot of people think. nasty divorce, drug use stemming from the perils of a upper middle class I disagree with you. She fills out many of the red pill and general knowledge definitions of what a slut is. Smh Of course Im gonna take the car with the less mileage on it. No track record of long-term relationships, combined with promiscuous behaviour, is always a bad sign, regardless of philosophy. Tough shit. Many men are saying that they dont like this, and dont want to end up marrying a guy with a vagina. Their lack of experience makes them fantasize about the what ifs. You are not. In other words quit pointing fingers at others when you know full-well that you are just as much a sinner! Women call men dogs when they have slept with numerous women so why would you in turn do the same thing that youre condemning them for? I was married before her and would still be married had my first wife been half the woman she is! Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. Its not unusual for women in my age bracket (53) to have had 100 men! You are correct in that position, but what I am saying in this article is to not make final judgement based more on their past instead of the person they are today. The past does matter, because granted imagine sleeping with the man or woman, exchanging fluids. First, I asked her what she thought. Makes not a whit of difference to me. Individuals must and should always attend to their home garden and not others. This may make some Men unhappy, but it will work! Men are ENCOURAGED to enjoy themselves sexually. Regardless, as I stated before you are entitled to your opinion. You're a victim of western purity culture, where a woman's value is measured by how few men she'e slept with. Furthermore, I think that guys that dont care about their partners Some may argue that it speaks to her character. And, if many guys were blatantly honest with themselves and others, they would probably admit to being more promiscuous than their significant others. I accepted the same level of acceptance i had with him. If you That said, if you think youve found the one (a dubious train of thought to begin with), by all means, give it a go, and see if it works out. I recommend a highly-qualified psychiatrist. Most often it takes more than two relationships to find your life partner. i could never date no one thats slept with a lot of people. no. So dont judge her based on a number, evaluate her based on the woman she is today. Its all we have. Somebody who DIDNT want that, ever. Sex is suppose to be something special between two people not the neighborhood. That just tells men you will move onto the next best thing when it comes to you. I think the double standard is wrong, but the answer for me is to use the same standard for men as we currently use for women. Tell that to employers who are hiring new employees. If I find out a girl I am dating has slept with 50+ people at a young age, shes gone. People are unable to act outside their own nature. I agree with you completely, and applaud you for being able to be abstinent again. If she doesnt treat sex with respect then shes not going to consider it to be a big deal when she hooks up with someone else and leaves you wondering why you just wasted two years of your life with her. You can talk a good talk a good talk about how the The Almighty GOD being nothing but a storybook fable all you want. For example, if your first sexual experience is a violent one, pain could cause you to become numb sexually and emotionally. reading this I can see that you only wrote this to make yourself believe that its OK you slept with a 100 guys . The fact of the matter is what one decides to do with their body is their decision and they should not be judged by imperfect perfect people based on that decision. So, we all have desires we better not fulfill. Ask any man if he wants to marry a woman who We have been together for almost a year now. Sure, that is what many men (especially those who are getting up there) say. Again, have you heard of Google? Tell her your own. justice itself. thanks but no thanks. I agree. Statistics do not lie. Accross nations, the average man gets married 2 years after women get married. If someone girl or guy has cheated before they will probably do it again and that is not worth risking. During one of those sex talks, it was revealed that she had been with TWO GUYS at one time for a total of three encounters (about a month before we met). Be very wary of that. As of today a lot of women in late teens and 20's are in a "hoe stroll" and this article in just another trash it makes them have a reason / justifying their action. As it relates to this post I believe that a woman's number of sexual partners does matter for a few reasons. Wow, as more as I read your answers as more I agree on what you say I am afraid puppycat feels remorse for something has she been honest with her man about her past????? Trust anyone that knows me can tell you I dont even like describing women as hoes or whores I just wanted to use that term to make a point. Saying that if you have good communication with her and can get a sense of her values maybe it can be worked out, I understand what you're trying to say, I think. Would you REALLY want to buy that car after you heard that? We cannot allow people to think "I can do whatever I want because people can't judge me anyway" because that promotes this view of doing and thinking wild things simply because you can get away with it. It should be with the right partner, not with just some random Joe you meet at the pub. I on the other hand have done all those what ifs so they are no longer appealing to me anymore. Butit /is/ a fact that the more promiscuous the woman, the more likely she is to have a failed marriage. What you do with your body matters. Ironic that you accuse someone else of being too lazy to link you to a study that you can just look up yourself, but didnt, because you werewelltoo lazy. know if your lover truly loves you for who you are if they dont know. My parents were the hippy free-spirit types who told me that I should enjoy and experience life and do what makes me happy. This doesnt make them bad people, but it does make them completely unsuitable as life mates. Just know your not alone. Thank you, Lord, for what you have done that we couldnt do for ourselves. This is only my input on the subject as I have been tackling this topic for weeks now and I am open to everybody's opinion. If a woman chooses to be a slut, there is a price to pay for that behavior with many men who will forever disqualify her from consideration as a serious partner to settle down with. I would still probably see a similar reaction to my post on both of those subreddits so I have no interest in reading more on that perspective which is why I'm here hoping for more varied discussion. If you love sex so much, u can have it with the man you believe will stay with u and you have something serious with, something that will not spoil your name.. Its a bit embarassing.. I understand the views of all who have chimed in on this topic. What would Jesus do? A person being compatible with you and someone being perfect are two different things. I just don't think hook-up culture will help me become the best version of myself. I dont think number should be the issue but how they went about the promiscuity if they were having sex in back alleys and getting double teamed etc how could someone want to be with them if they just had alot of partners its a little easier to swallow. insert kylo ren meme here. Sorry, bro. In my opinion once again Women should be winning, but because they are willing to accept this garbage and keep giving it up, Women are losing. After my grandmother died things werent the same. Some may just love sex and wanted to explore. Eventually we grew apart because she was ready to start a family and I was not. So take a second and ask yourself why it matters. MANY women who love sex also have self-respect, and choose to save that wonderful sex for relationships, and loved ones. Awesome! It would best be done in the The first onewasvery faithful loyaland gave no other man any indication that he had any shot with her while the other flirtedetc and didnt see anything wrong with it because she hadnt had sex with anyone. But she was still a really nice lady, and from what I hear pretty good at sex. It She is everything you would want a woman to be, and you feel an awesome connection with her. Where to begin You are also correct about women who men know have gotten around will have a much harder time finding a man, which is why most women lie and will take some of these secrets to their grave. What I am saying is I dont feel it is best to allow that to overshadow everything else that is great about this woman and the fact that you believe she is best from you (aside from a possible past you arent too happy about). And yes, I enjoy educating the ignorant, such as yourself, on such topics. a man after sex, and not valuing her as the woman she is inside. We enjoy a lot playing games and remembering her sexual past. Some women know how to take care of themselves in a way that would cause you to have no clue how much wear and tear they may have. We all have issues, so we have no right to be so quick to judge, and look down on others for their perceived issue. Twitter. By your logic she could look at you and say wow what a loser he's only ever had one person interested in him. If you cannot trust a woman then you cannot love her. If the guy hasn't had that many partners, then it might be an issue. Would you still judge her as nothing more than a whore or was she simply a victim of a horrible act and didnt know or wasnt able to get the help to properly handle it. It's always great to reflect on this stuff. Best recognize! Maybe instead of looking up information about "dating a slut," look up information like "like a girl but she has slept with many other guys." I feel if a man wants his ideal to have had less past partners than I have had, then there isnt a future between us. Whos gonna stick around for that? interact. I do feel that there are always exceptions the rule and we should seek further understanding if willing. The West is the last, civilized group that needs to comment Men lie, because it increases theirs. So there is a responsibility on both ends. Hoe Stroll is defined as a period of time where a woman is much more promiscuous than she has ever been or will be again. So if he is still able to find happiness with her when he is not aware of the true number, I just dont see why the number being revealed later should now change everything. Thank you so much : ) I really appreciate that. you know like people. Not because I say so but because His Word says so. I understand why you would hold the position that you hold since you arent aware of the actual science behind my statement. Once you find the right Man, cover him with COCHIE JUICE, give him more than he can handle. Cut it out and replace it with positive experiences. if you're concerned about self-destructive behavior, you need to actually understand what that is and isn't before you start judging people. Level-Headed. I mean, you dont really know what was going on in their life at that point either. No one-male or female-should be judged for their past actions. It shapes us. Do you know what these signs are and how to avoid them like the plague? So in my opinion the way to ensure more virgins and keep women in that box is to slander anyone that steps outside of that. I say how many men she has slept with should not matter. This isnt about telling women it is good or ok to have a lot of sex partners. Compare apples to apples, Crazy Obsessed Man. She doesn't feel that she should have to settle down, and she thinks it's unfair that other women degrade her for this. Yall remember the movie House Party.when Bernie Mac remembered ole boys wife at the dinner table.smh They use to call you jawbones.lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaao nahhhh.Ill pass on all that. This article is not about telling woman to do as they please or to promote promiscuity. He look at them both. On March 12, 2003, 15-year-old Elizabeth Smart was found safe nine months after being abducted from her family's home in Salt Lake City, Utah. And marrying a male whore would not be my choice either! Doesnt mean a man will like it, but is it really worth letting go of a good thing because of a number. Unfortunately partners that get stuck on whos done more dirty deeds than the other often have deeper insecurity issues than this topic could cover and the insecurities are fueled by the world around them. Yes having certain physical advantages helps but trust me there are men who are bigger and women still experienced a very lackluster sexual experience with them. You dont think there are alpha women out there? That scares me more than anything else. your such a b.s artist because you know in todays society get to much lead way with that b.s. Im sick of the who are we to judge mentality.. We judge very often. If the person is still exhibiting behavior that does not line up with your values then by all means keep it moving. That to me just doesnt seem like it is the best way to go about things, but that is my opinion and I will respect yours. Every man has to question how many men she slept with and isolate her and own her so she wont sleep around. What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? You need both to function but then again so do women. I really do agree that the double standard about sex partners is ridiculous. Wow, so many issues with your post. Sex often results in emotional attachment for a woman. And because women economically couldnt take care of themselves and would have been shunned by their communities, women were forced to stay in their marriage. Great article. Would you marry a girl who slept around? Oh sure, I agree. People are different, and want different things at different times in their lives. Probably not while having sex with her either. Since men have choices, we can choose to reward or punish this sluttiness on the part of young women. Who are they sleeping with? This continued for 9 years or sountil one night having dinner with colleagues and i mentioned that i knew a lady that worked at a department store and she could get a discount for some one at the table.I was torn to pieces in front of everyone and humiliated! 0. The fact that there is a message board I'm not sure how many guys she has slept with partially because I feel like asking that question is a sign of insecurity and I'm trying to avoid showing I'm insecure about it as well as being terrified by what the answer could be. He is attracted to children by nature. Some, such as yourself possibly, dont have the save freedoms. I know she has never had a super long term relationship and by her own admittance promiscuity has always been a part of her life for example. I totally agree! Past DOES matter. Sorry, Id much rather reward the woman who showed discipline, restraint, integrity, and respect for herself. By your logic, nothing matters, and we should all turn our brains off. The fact that Kim Kardashian is a role model for women is sickening. Ive broken hearts and have been burned myself. Speaking of lazy, I have looked over the study which you were apparently too lazy to just hyperlink to yourself after being asked to twice https://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/3600089?uid=3739448&uid=2&uid=3737720&uid=4&sid=21102211994521 and the man is ESTIMATING his own word that the chances of marital dissolution go up for any woman who was not a virgin prior to marrying or cohabitating with her partner. Some religions cut off womens sensitive parts so that she will NOT experience pleasure. I disagree 100%. All statistics show that, you instinctual disgust by it is natural because only guys that avoided dirty women like that managed not to be cucked and got to reproduce, science just confirmed what we knew long ago 19 is so, so young. If you are brigading from another subreddit you will be banned. 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